Anonymous asked: Does your parents know that you're a pornstar? (you're awesome btw)
I told my mom pretty early on and she has always been supportive since she knows I’m happy, safe, and am treated better than any other job I’ve had. I don’t talk to my dad but if I did I would tell him because I don’t really care what he thinks of me. I can’t imagine he would care though. I’m a guy so we typically don’t fall in to the myth of needing to be ‘saved’ from doing sex work like people put on women.
Saying ‘I notice you’re a nerd’ is like saying, ‘Hey, I notice that you’d rather be intelligent than be stupid, that you’d rather be thoughtful than be vapid, that you believe that there are things that matter more than the arrest record of Lindsay Lohan. Why is that?’ In fact, it seems to me that most contemporary insults are pretty lame. Even ‘lame’ is kind of lame. Saying ‘You’re lame’ is like saying ‘You walk with a limp.’ Yeah, whatever, so does 50 Cent, and he’s done all right for himself.
—John Green (via kushandwizdom)